Curated Digital Wedding Invitations
One wedding invitation.
Every event, tracked separately.
Designed for multi-day weddings. Effortlessly coordinate separate guest lists for your welcome party, traditional, ceremony and reception all within one invitation.
Your first 50 guests are free. No card needed.
Abi & Tobi
Together with their families, invite you to celebrate
20 to 22 November 2026
London
Until the traditional engagement
The days
Friday 20 November · 1:00 PM
Traditional Engagement
The Grand Hall, London
Saturday 21 November · 11:00 AM
Wedding Ceremony
St Mary's Church, London
Sunday 22 November · 6:00 PM
Evening Reception
The Orangery, Kensington
- 1The Grand HallFri · Traditional Engagement
- 2St Mary's ChurchSat · Wedding Ceremony
- 3The OrangerySun · Evening Reception
How we met
We met at a friend's birthday in Peckham in 2019 and argued about jollof for an hour. Neither of us won, and we have not stopped talking since.
Six years, two flats and one very patient mother later, we would love you there when we make it official.
The wedding party
Getting there
By train
Bond Street and Paddington are both ten minutes from the hall. From Heathrow, the Elizabeth line is quickest.
See it on the map ↗Flying in
Heathrow is closest, about forty minutes by car. Gatwick works too, with the Express into Victoria.
See it on the map ↗Driving and parking
There is a car park on Park Lane, a short walk away. The Orangery has none of its own, so take a taxi on Sunday.
See it on the map ↗Where to stay
The rooms we have held
The Kensington Hotel
Ten minutes from the reception. Quote ABITOBI when you book.
Book a room ↗A hotel nearby
The Pelham
A little quieter, a short walk from South Kensington, and lovely for brunch.
Open their website ↗What to wear
Aso-ebi on Friday, in burgundy and gold. Soft pastels for the church, and black tie on Sunday, or whatever you can dance in.
Questions
- Can I bring someone?
- Your invitation names everyone it covers. If it says plus one, bring whoever you like.
- Are children invited?
- Very welcome on Friday and at the church. The reception on Sunday is for the grown-ups.
- Can I take photographs?
- Please keep phones away during the vows. After that, snap away and send them to us.
Gifts
Your presence is the gift. If you would like to do something more, our list is here.
Our gift list ↗Thank you for the fittings, the prayers, the long journeys and the jollof debates. We cannot wait to celebrate with every one of you. See you on the dance floor.
Abi & Tobi
Will you be joining us?
Let us know for each day you are invited to. It takes a moment, and you can change your answer later.
Replying as Olivia Bankole
Not you?
- Traditional EngagementFri 20 Nov · 1:00 PM
- Wedding CeremonySat 21 Nov · 11:00 AM
- Evening ReceptionSun 22 Nov · 6:00 PM
Saved. You can change this any time.
Sent directly to guests on WhatsApp or iMessage.
Choose a scene
Envelopes
Give your guests an unforgettable first impression as the wax seal lifts to reveal your magical scene within
- Nothing for guests to installGuests open the invitation directly from chat
- Sent from your own WhatsApp or iMessageSo it arrives from you, not from a platform
- Paid once, never a subscriptionFree to your first 50 guests, then one payment
- One list for you and your vendorsRSVPs and dietary notes in one place, ready to export for caterers and venues
01How it works
You send the invitations. We track every reply.
Invitations go out from your own WhatsApp or iMessage, one tap each, so they arrive from you rather than from a platform, and guests reply where they already talk to you.
The steps4
- 01
Build your events
Traditional, Ceremony, Reception, or whatever yours are called. Each gets its own time, venue and dress code on the one invitation.
- 02
Add your guests
Type them in or paste your whole list, then tick who is invited to which event. A name is enough to start.
- 03
Send from your own WhatsApp
Add a guest's number and one tap opens WhatsApp, message written and addressed. You press send.
- 04
Watch replies land
A yes or no for each event, with headcounts and dietary notes, counted up as they come in.
Your side of it: three invitations lined up to send, and the reminders after. Take the names in any order, and your place is kept if you stop for the night.
Olivia Bankole
+44 7700 900 101
Hi Olivia! You're invited to the wedding of Abi & Tobi 💛 View your invite & RSVP here: ourguestlist.co.uk/i/olivia
02The look
Your invitation, as it lands in WhatsApp. Choose your theme.
03Why one RSVP is never enough
Some guests are only invited to one event. Others, to every day.
Most tools track one RSVP for one event. A multi-day wedding needs separate headcounts for each day, event, and vendor. Add as many events as your celebration needs, whether that is two or ten.
An example celebration
Traditional
Family-side guest list, with its own venue, its own time and its own dress code on the invite.18422Ceremony
Smaller, invite-only list. Only the guests you tick for this event ever see it on their invite.968Reception
Full guest list, dietary notes captured at RSVP, and a headcount you can export for your caterer.3104104What it costs
One payment for your whole wedding. Never per guest, never per month.
Essential
Free
No card needed, and it stays free for good.
- Up to 50 guests
- Your website
- RSVP tracking for up to 2 events
- The simple caterer's workbook
- WhatsApp and iMessage invitation cards
- Eight second invitation scene
- Ready-made wax seals
Tailored
£65
Paid once, for one celebration.
Everything in Essential, and
- Up to 400 guests
- Unlimited RSVP tracking for every event
- Access to the full theme collection
- Your planner on the dashboard
- The enhanced caterer's workbook
- A monogram wax seal
- Standard support
Bespoke
£195
Paid once. Made with you, not for you.
Everything in Tailored, and
- Unlimited guests
- A custom invitation theme designed for you
- Your own web address, in your name
- A custom eight second invitation scene
- A wax seal made for you
- An onboarding call
- Priority support
Still costing it up with a printer? Printing and posting invitations for a 300-guest wedding, cards, envelopes and postage, comes to more than £220. That's at least £155 more than paying us once.
See the full workings
05For planners
Every celebration you're running, under one login.
Manage multiple client weddings directly from your dashboard header. Invite the couple to collaborate on a single shared guest list, then export per-event headcounts for caterers and venues.
Numbers your vendors actually need
Not just “146 people said yes.” The Export button on your guest list gives you a spreadsheet: everyone with their answer to each event, each event’s headcount standing over its own column, and the dietary notes on a sheet of their own, ready to forward to whoever is cooking.
What the export gives you4
- Every event shows what's confirmed, and the most it could still become
- Dietary notes on their own sheet, with no phone numbers on it
- Guests say how many are coming, wherever you've allowed extra
- Filter to one event or one group and export just those
The spreadsheet
Guest list
An example list · 5 guests
Headcounts
Who is coming, event by event
Dietary notes
3 of the 5 guests have a note